Monday, December 31, 2012

Happy New Year!!

I hope you all enjoyed the holidays with your loved ones. I am so grateful for the lovely time I had with my family on Christmas Day. As I had hoped, we did play a little game after dinner where two questions were presented to everyone: what is your favorite time of day? and what is your favorite comfort food? After everyone wrote their answers on slips of paper, I collected them and read them off so everyone could list them on a separate piece of paper. They then wrote their guesses of who belonged to each pair of answers.

The answers were as fun to hear as they were enlightening. Some people were easy to guess because their answers were so obvious, but others were more difficult because we've never shared such information before now. When we were done guessing, everyone had to elaborate on their time-of-day selection. The answers were fascinating. My mom, especially, loved learning more about her family and couldn't wait to share her list with her home care giver the next day. My sons had a later conversation about what really qualifies as comfort food to them. And I started an Excel file on the family with a tab for each person. As time goes on, we'll continue the game, asking different questions during each session. It will be an easy way to record their behind-the-scenes stories and enjoy some family fun in the meantime.

Happy New Year to you all!

Friday, December 21, 2012

How Much Do You Know About Your Loved Ones From Their Perspective?

As I rise this morning, my heart still sad over this past week's tragedy, I am haunted by the glaring reminder that all of us are vulnerable to losing our lives in an instant, often without having had the chance to communicate to our loved ones the essence of who we really are from our own perspective. Most likely, eulogies and memories of our lives will someday be drawn from accomplishments seen by or evaluations made through the eyes of our survivors.

My gut tells me our loved ones will treasure memories of us even more one day if we take the time to make our own contributions to those memories while we are still here. What if a mom or a brother or a grandpa had spent time asking one of these dear lost children what she knew about her world and recording her messages: her favorite aroma, song, food; her favorite time of day, the first thing she remembered in her life; something she felt she was good at; what she thought was the best part of being a kid; her definitions of kindness, love, and fun? They would have helped her make a huge contribution to her own legacy. And she could have edited those thoughts as she matured and experienced more of the world.

If I someday lose one of you, I want to remember you from YOUR perspective. I want to remember so much more than your external achievements. I want to remember what made you tick, what was important to you, and how you felt you contributed to the universe as a person while you were here. That's what I see as a true legacy.

So during this Christmas season, I'm going to practice my beliefs. I'll find a fun way to have a conversation with my loved ones about some of the above subjects. Perhaps we will make a game of it around the dinner table, where we write our thoughts about various subjects on slips of paper, and then guess who belongs to each thought. Afterwards, I'll save a file for each person and continue to collect their thoughts as time goes on.

How about you? Can you find a way to collect all that is memorable from your loved ones while they are alive and well and contributing to this precious thing called life? Blessed Holidays to you and those you love!

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Heaven’s Wait’s New Online Store!

You are cordially invited to travel a brand new path along my Heaven’s Wait journey! After many months of delays and commitments that caused me to move forward with my vision at a pace much slower than I anticipated, I am happy to announce that Heaven’s Wait’s official online store is now open for your enjoyment. My fantasy world has inspired me to write its stories, compose its music, and animate its environment. Now, I will offer something new by bringing to life some of the fantasy elements that thrive within the world of Heaven’s Wait.

I’ve created a small collection of unique items and gifts that reflect the essence of Heaven’s Wait as I know it thus far. The items you find within the HW Shops are handcrafted in small quantities and exclusive to the Heaven’s Wait website. The main HW Shop offers not only two fine hand-knit specialties, inspired by the magical “wistas” that occupy the valley of Vowella under the care of the other-worldly Fig Wig clan, but also two specialty coffee selections, freshly roasted for you from the depths of the mysterious “Jimmy’s Jungle.”

The Drippils Shop offers a fun variety of activity items designed to introduce the young children in your lives to the silly “Drippils”, tiny animated characters that live unknown to Heaven’s Wait’s central characters, the Vowellans, yet hidden right under the common plants that flourish throughout the community of Vowella.

You may find the shops at www.heavenswait.com/ShopHW.html.
I hope you enjoy your visit. Thanks so much for your ongoing support of my creative journey.

With warmest regards,
Barbara McLaughlin

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Monday, October 8, 2012

Revisiting the Hero's Journey

Lightbulb moment! I spent some serious time yesterday working on my latest manuscript. Since I was beginning to lead my main character down the path to his major ordeal within the story, I decided to take a break to test how well he is traveling the classic "hero's journey.” I pulled out Christopher Vogler's The Writer's Journey and reviewed the stages he suggests for such a journey, based on the wisdom of Joseph Campbell.

It felt great to refresh myself about the classic formula for story writing that has been in place for centuries, one that has produced most of the greatest stories of all time. I found it fairly easy to attach my current chapters to several of those stages and found that I can now plot out the necessary story elements I’ll need in order for my "hero" to complete his journey. Since my present manuscript is actually a rewrite of a portion of my original story about Heaven’s Wait, I already have a list of chapters that need to be matched to the remaining journey elements.

With the help of my new writing application, Scrivener, I can assign journey stages to my chapters as part of the chapters’ synopses. I’ll actually be tracking two journeys: one for Innocents’ current hero, and one for RJ, hero of my first book, RJ’s Story. RJ continues to play a key though lesser role in Innocents, but the role is still worthy of tracking. I want to make sure both characters do the book justice by traveling paths that are both creative and in line with a winning formula.

Since organization is so much my thing, I am going to enjoy this process!

Learn more about The Writer’s Journey at: http://www.thewritersjourney.com/

And check out the writing app Scrivener at: http://www.literatureandlatte.com/scrivener.php

Monday, August 6, 2012

OK! I Give! It's time for my Blog to Hibernate.

Yes, it's time for me to own up to the fact that there are only so many hours in a day. I've decided to take an extended break from blog writing so I can focus on some behind-the-scenes development for Heaven's Wait, as well as for our family business, McLaughlin Coffee Company. Otherwise, I'll continue to move at a snail's pace on the many projects that consistently take a backseat in my overbooked life, and I'm not content to do that. I love writing my blog, and I put a lot of thought and record keeping into each post. But I'll feel much better about devoting time to it once I have had a chance to complete some essential chores and spend some serious time working on Innocents.

I so appreciate all of you who have been following the progress of Heaven's Wait and also the Lasting Story project. And I hope you will stay with me while I step away for a while. You are welcome to drop me a line or share your thoughts with me while I'm off the grid.

In the meantime, I'll occasionally post random tidbits of this-and-that, which we all seem to enjoy sharing with each other. Thanks for your ongoing support.

Barbara

Friday, August 3, 2012

Lasting Story: Kindness Means . . .

Suggestions: Let's dig into a little bit of your personal wisdom. No matter how young or old you are, you've gained wisdom through your life experiences. A way to start sharing that wisdom is to try to express what Kindness means to you. If you had to explain it to a child or grandchild, how would you tell them about it? What are the ways that kindness was expressed to you? How important do you think it is to a well-rounded life? Share your take on the subject in a way that's memorable to both you and your loved ones.

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

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Monday, July 30, 2012

Potpourri: NYC! A View from the Inside

On our recent trip to New York City, I had in mind to explore the city in a different way than I had in the past. I had seen the touristy, glitzy side of the city on a couple of previous trips. This time, I wanted to immerse myself in some of the neighborhoods and local hangouts, to get a sense of what it was like to be a New Yorker, to talk to everyday people about their lives there.

We learned a great deal by conversing with a United Nations of cab drivers, hotel staff members, and food service people; by visiting a couple of old friends; and by spending an afternoon with a couple of colorful Italians who are our coffee clients. I think we just scratched the surface in getting to know more about NYC, but it was a good start. Here are a few of our inside views:


A casual Italian restaurant with a take-out front shop, Il Buco Alimentari & Vineria, nestled in the old Bowery section, just down the street from our hotel. It seems to draw locals, as well as notable food celebrities. The food was mouthwatering.


A view from our hotel of the East Village skyline. Love the rooftop gardens you can spot here and there. Everything of interest here was on the outside. Our room was so small, there was barely room to walk around the bed.


Inside the magnificent Cathedral of St. John the Divine. The grandeur and architectural achievement take your breath away.


Of course, we had to feed my fondness for Rembrandt paintings inside the Metropolitan Museum of Art.


The caricatures inside the dining room at Sardi's bring to mind the old movie days of Frank Sinatra, Lucille Ball, Bob Hope and more.


How could we ignore the New York prices for coffee drinks at Sardi's compared to what we see here is the SF Bay Area?


More grand architecture inside the renowned Shubert Theatre.


Our favorite breakfast place, Gemma's, inside the old Bowery Hotel.


A view from inside Washington Square Park. Such a lovely environment in the middle of the concrete jungle and surrounding NYU.


This is the NY lifestyle I wanted to know more about . . . the quiet neighborhoods in the West Village.


Inside Gray's Papaya, a signature hot dog stop for locals and visitors alike.


Our Italian coffee clients,Lucca and Enrico, with Mike inside their Queens coffee shop, Triple Shot World Atlas Cafe.


The City, from inside a car crossing the Manhattan Bridge.


We enjoyed the fun decor inside Lily's Restaurant, an eclectic Midtown eatery in the Theatre District.


We couldn't leave New York without being on the inside of a powerful flash thunder/lightning storm at the South Street Seaport.

Friday, July 27, 2012

Lasting Story: A Song to Play with Me in Mind

Suggestions: Is there a song out there in the world of music that defines you as a person? Is there a special song, when all is said and done, that others would associate with you, making them smile when they think of you? Is it the same song you would pick for yourself? Have you carried a certain song with you as your "theme song" throughout your life thus far? Is there a song that you love far more than any other? Describe the feelings you have about this song and why it is important to you. Share this information with your loved ones so they know how you feel about it. Find out which songs others consider special to them.

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

Visit the Heaven's Wait website for the accumulated Lasting Story Write Guide at:
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Has this subject prompted a discussion between you and your family or friends? You are welcome to share your thoughts or conversations by commenting in one of two places:

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Monday, July 23, 2012

Potpourri: More Summer Crop Recipes

Though my time was tight this weekend, I had to find time to process some of the bounty that is flowing from my garden, for fear it would soon go bad. The heat brought out a new surge of green beans; the zucchini is growing by inches each day; and the strawberries are out of control. And, I still had two overflowing cookie sheets of the plums we picked before our vacation.

Some recipes are good no matter how old they are. Often they're the best. So I decided to reach back to some simple tried-and-true recipes for both the green beans and the plums.



Stewed Green Beans
My mom has been making this recipe as long as I can remember. No tender-crisp beans here. They are soft and delicate, stewed in a simple tomato sauce that fills the house with a lovely home-cooked aroma.

2 Tbsp olive oil
2-4 Tbsp chopped onion
1-2 cloves garlic, chopped
1-2 lbs. green beans, snapped and stringed
1 8oz. can tomato sauce or 5-6 fresh tomatoes, chopped
Chicken broth
1 Tbsp fresh basil, chopped
Salt and pepper to taste

Sauté onion and garlic in olive oil until soft. Add green beans and tomato sauce. Stir. Add enough chicken broth to just about cover the beans. Add basil and season to taste. Bring to a boil, then simmer until beans are very tender, about 45 minutes. Add more broth if needed. Sprinkle with grated Parmesan cheese, if desired.

Plum Jam
This recipe comes from an old Homes and Gardens cookbook. Plums have enough pectin in them that there is no need to add more. I don't do formal canning. I wash jars and lids in the dishwasher right before using them so they are still steaming hot. Then I keep jars of jam in the freezer until I use them. Once I open them, I refrigerate them.

5 cups processed plums (pitted and coarsely chopped in food processor)
4 cups sugar

Combine plums and sugar in a large, heavy pot. Allow mixture to sit for 1 hour. Boil hard, stirring often, until jam sheets off of the spoon, 12-15 minutes. Immediately fill hot jars. Makes 5-6 half-pints. *I used 6 cups plums and 4.25 cups sugar, and got almost 5 pints of jam. Secure lids tightly once jam has cooled.

Friday, July 20, 2012

Lasting Story: The School Day I Remember Most

Suggestions: Most people can pinpoint a school day in their lives that stood out above the rest. Which day stood out for you? Was it a day of discovery or excitement or inspiration? Was it a day of sadness or disappointment? What do you remember about that day, and how did it impact your life? What would you like your loved ones to take away from your experience on that day?

**For me, it was a sad day, the day JFK was assassinated. I was in a junior high school class when the announcement came over the intercom. Teachers and students alike were reduced to shock and tears. Friends became hysterical while others became soothing caretakers. Parents and relatives sobbed in front of their TVs for days. The wounds to a beloved president cut deeply into the trust and innocence of my youth. But they taught me how shared grief and compassion can heal heavy hearts.**

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

Visit the Heaven's Wait website for the accumulated Lasting Story Write Guide at:
http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html

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Monday, July 16, 2012

Imagination and Writing

As I continue to work on Book 2 of the Heaven's Wait! Tales from Vowella Series, Innocents, I shake my head at the fact that all of the characters, their community, the world in which they live, and the tales that have thus far emerged have come from a place inside my head. Innocents is a reworked compilation of tales I wrote several years ago. I look at the stories now and think . . . Where did all this stuff come from? How did I ever think up these oddball characters? How did I decide on their particular personalities? How did I come up with their stories and overall theme? Most of my friends, at one time or another, have questioned my sanity in developing it all, and I don't blame them for that.

The Merriam-Webster online dictionary defines Imagination as: an act or process of forming a conscious idea or mental image of something never before wholly perceived in reality by the one forming the images (as through a synthesis of remembered elements of previous sensory experiences or ideas as modified by unconscious defense mechanisms); also: the ability or gift of forming such conscious ideas or mental images especially for the purposes of artistic or intellectual creation.

Successconsciousness.com defines Imagination as: a creative power that is necessary for inventing an instrument, designing a dress or a building, painting a picture or writing a book. The creative power of imagination has an important role in the achievement of success in any field. What we imagine with faith and feelings comes into being. It is the power beyond creative visualization, positive thinking and affirmations.

I can only be thankful for the places my imagination has taken me. It has allowed me to explore my creative side in ways I never thought possible. It has allowed me to develop and write about a whole community of otherworldly characters that are in many ways like my children. I feel a responsibility to guide them through their learning experiences and give them challenges to conquer while they are on their way to becoming purposeful individuals. And just as children do, the characters have already taught me more than I have taught them. They often write their own stories, based on what I first imagined. I simply do the dictation.

I can't imagine what my life would have been like without my imagination, which has so graciously guided me along my unexpected writing journey.


Monday, July 9, 2012

Online Commerce: Beware of Tax ID Scams

As I finally work my way toward opening Heaven's Wait's online store, I must shake my head in disgust at the creative ways people try to take hard-earned dollars from unsuspecting new business owners who don't quite know the ins and outs of completing the bureaucratic processes. Fortunately, I've learned a few things, since I've gone through the business startup process several times in the past.

Once I finally got past the LLC application process with the State, I went online to apply for an EIN, Employer Identification Number. My Google search of EINs gave me a variety of options. I went to the top option because the web address began with IRS. I completed the basic form for obtaining an EIN. When I went to submit it, I was sent to a billing information form. WHAT? I knew there was no fee involved in obtaining an EIN. At the bottom of the form, there were two options. The fee for obtaining the number was $179.00 for standard delivery in 3-5 business days, or $247 for rush delivery within 1-2 hours of submission.

At that point, I knew it was time to cancel the application. But wait! When I hit the back arrow, I was taken to a page that offered me some time sensitive deals with a coupon code and everything: $97 for standard delivery and $197 for rush delivery. Wow! How nice of them!

I closed out the tab and went to the official IRS website, where I quickly found the correct application, which by the way asked for the exact same information. I submitted it and immediately received my number online, along with an official IRS confirmation letter verifying the submittal and receipt.

There is no reason anyone should ever use such a company to apply for an EIN. They are not doing the work for you; there is no convenience factor. You still have to provide them with the necessary information. I'm surprised the government has not shut down such operations.

Friday, July 6, 2012

Lasting Story: The Best Part of Being a Kid

Suggestions: As you write your Lasting Story, don't forget to include an entry describing what you most loved about being a kid. Was it the freedom you felt? Perhaps it was a special friendship you had or an attachment to where you lived. Or maybe it was the thrill you felt as you experienced new things. Write about the precious childhood moments that will always remain in your heart. Share your thoughts with your loved ones.

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

Visit the Heaven's Wait website for the accumulated Lasting Story Write Guide at:
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Has this subject prompted a discussion between you and your family or friends? You are welcome to share your thoughts or conversations by commenting in one of two places:

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Monday, July 2, 2012

Return to Writing: Everyone Has a Back-Story!

I just returned from a vacation to the East Coast, where I delighted in exploring not only some fascinating nooks and crannies of both New York City and Boston, but also in observing the interesting people who define those urban cultures. My everyday quiet lifestyle of work, creativity, gardening, and family does not usually afford me an opportunity to people-watch or meet new folks.

My observations and interactions didn't hesitate to remind me that all people have stories that have brought them to where they are today. I visited a dear friend who, though having suffered a tragic loss in her life a few years back, has somehow found her way to a bright new purpose and a meaningful new love. I talked to a Pakistani cab driver who attributes his series of heart ailments to sixteen stressful years of driving in NYC. I met one of our coffee customers who told us tales of his wild introduction to the U.S. upon his arrival as a naive youth from Italy. And I reminisced with a former elementary school classmate about our eclectic life journeys, which somehow led us to reconnect for breakfast in NYC.

I spent my last morning in Boston sitting on a shady park bench in the Boston Common, observing people: an elderly Asian man who was struggling with the operation of his cell phone; a young woman who was so pregnant that she waddled along the path - yet she was out enjoying the day; a middle-aged man who was sitting alone on a bench doing nothing but smoking one cigarette after another for the longest time. I wondered what their back-stories were and how they came to be in that time and place.

My observations reminded me that every character in a fictional story needs a history. So if I wish to write effectively, I must create a back-story of each of my characters. I don't have to include all of their information in the story, but I must understand the characters' unique histories so their relevance to the story is clear, not only to me but also to the reader. Before I dive back into writing Book 2 of Heaven's Wait! Tales from Vowella, I think I'll go back and review the back-stories of the characters I've already written into Innocents.


Friday, June 29, 2012

Lasting Story: The Person I Would Most Like to Meet (Living or Deceased)

Suggestions: If given the opportunity, which person would you like to meet more than anyone else in the world? Would you like to go back in time and talk to an historical figure? Would you like to meet a present-day individual whom you admire? Talk about meeting this person . . . what you would say to him/her, and why he/she stands above the rest in your eyes. Share your thoughts with your loved ones.

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

Visit the Heaven's Wait website for the accumulated Lasting Story Write Guide at:
http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html

To receive Lasting Story Writing Alerts, join the Heaven's Wait Email Alert List at: http://www.heavenswait.com/FormEmailList.aspx

Has this subject prompted a discussion between you and your family or friends? You are welcome to share your thoughts or conversations by commenting in one of two places:

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Monday, June 25, 2012

Potpourri: Easy, Addicting Guacamole

When I was formulating the menu for the engagement party we recently hosted, I had to include the one dish that always seems to please a crowd: a creamy mountain of guacamole surrounded by plenty of fresh corn chips. In years past, I was always one to overload my guacamole with way too many ingredients, thinking it would be that much better if I added tomatoes, onions, garlic, cheese, peppers, and who knows what else. But a few years ago, we vacationed in Puerto Vallarta. A couple of lovable local cooks gave me a lesson in guacamole making, and I've been keeping it simple since then.

Avocados, lime juice and salt! That's all they used. I couldn't believe how delicious it was that way. The taste of the avocados really shined. But since I'm a cilantro addict, I do have to sneak some into the recipe if I have it around, and I usually throw in either a little garlic powder or chopped garlic chives. Garlic is good for you, right? So here's how guacamole comes out of my kitchen these days.

Ingredients:
2 avocados
Juice of 1/2-1 lime
1 tsp kosher salt
1 Tbs fresh cilantro, finely chopped
1 1/2 tsp garlic chives, finely chopped or 1/4 tsp garlic powder

Instructions:
Halve and pit the avocados. Scoop out the avocado meat with a spoon. In a shallow bowl, mash avocados with a fork or potato masher to desired texture. Add limejuice, salt, cilantro and garlic. Mix thoroughly. Allow to sit for at least 1/2 hour to blend flavors.
Serve this yummy appetizer with some of the great organic chips that are out there these days.

Friday, June 22, 2012

Gifts: How I'm Most Like My Parents

Suggestions: Which of your parent(s') traits have you absorbed in unmistakable ways? Have you picked up their humor or sarcasm? Have you followed their spiritual or charitable paths? Do you carry any of their bad habits with you? Do you relate to people in ways similar to your parents?

Good or bad, talk about your behaviors as compared to those of your parent(s) and how much their examples have influenced your life, especially if you've never before considered the subject.

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

Visit the Heaven's Wait website for the accumulated Lasting Story Write Guide at:
http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html

To receive Lasting Story Writing Alerts, join the Heaven's Wait Email Alert List at: http://www.heavenswait.com/FormEmailList.aspx

Has this subject prompted a discussion between you and your family or friends? You are welcome to share your thoughts or conversations by commenting in one of two places:

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Monday, June 18, 2012

Potpourri: Ultimate Vanilla Cupcakes

Our son's Engagement Party happened Saturday. It was a fun and emotional day, and a successful "meet the families" weekend. Our son and his fiancée were radiant. It turned out that the shining star of the culinary offerings was the cupcake tower. Everyone went nuts over the yummy, delicate delights. We did a lot of experimenting months ahead to find the right recipe. We scrapped a couple of recipes that were too dense and dry. In the meantime, I also considered the food sensitivities of guests, especially those who were lactose-intolerant. In the end, we found the magic recipe; one that proved to be worth the extra time and effort it took to make them.

For the lactose-sensitive folks, I made the following substitutions: Almond milk instead of whole milk, IMO instead of sour cream, and Earth Balance Buttery Sticks instead of butter. That batch actually came out fluffier than the regular recipe.

The cake was over-the-top rich in vanilla flavor because it included vanilla from real vanilla beans, as well as 100% pure vanilla extract. The most time-consuming part of the process was scraping the seeds from the vanilla beans and working them into the sugar that would be used in the recipe. I completed that task two weeks ahead of time, so I wouldn't have to waste precious time right before the party, time that was at a premium. It turned out that the advance step allowed the vanilla to mellow into the sugar, making it that much more pungent when time came to make the cupcakes (our houseguest for the weekend, the soon-to-be maid of honor, managed to steal a few spoonfuls of the vanilla sugar for her coffee, and almost swooned over the added flavor.)

I'm including the links to the actual online recipes for both the cupcakes and the frosting. I must give credit where due to the bakers who developed these recipes. Give the cupcakes a try for a truly special treat!!

The Ultimate Vanilla Cupcake!

Vanilla Buttercream Frosting

Enjoy!

Note: Just for fun, the cupcakes were topped with toothpicks that bore a picture of the happy couple on one side and well wishes on the flip side.

Friday, June 15, 2012

Books That Have Influenced Me

Suggestions: What are the books that have impacted your life? Are they biographies, books of a spiritual or inspirational nature, those that have introduced you to factual subjects about which you would never have otherwise known, or those that have taught you some valuable lessons? Are they whimsical in nature, those that have made you laugh or cry, or those that have sparked your inner creativity? Are they classics that have touched your heart in a special way?

When Jacqueline Onassis Kennedy passed on, her son announced to the press that, "My mother died surrounded by her friends and her family and her books, and the people and the things that she loved." Wouldn't it be nice if each of us had a collection of books that impacted us so much that they deserved to bear witness to such an important event in our lives?

Write about those books. Make record of your feelings about them. Your loved ones may someday appreciate knowing about them.

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

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Monday, June 11, 2012

Potpourri: Lemon/Rosemary Chicken Tenders

For my son's engagement party this coming weekend, I plan to lay out a sandwich bar, where guests may choose from yummy ingredients and build the sandwich of their liking on either the fresh focaccia I detailed last week or freshly baked sandwich rolls. I will butterfly and marinate the chicken tenders the previous day, then on party day, I'll broil them just until they are tender and succulent. Aside from the standard lettuce, tomatoes, cheeses, and condiments, I will offer a basil pesto sauce, a Thai peanut sauce, guacamole, and some roasted sweet peppers. That way, guests may build their sandwiches as simply or exotically as they please.

I did something similar for my mom's 85th birthday party, and the sandwiches were a big hit. To my surprise, the focaccia shone as the star sandwich component (see my Focaccia blog post). The chicken ran a close second.

Lemon/Rosemary Chicken Tenders

Marinade - per 12 pieces:

Fresh or frozen chicken tenders (allow 2-3 per serving)
3/4 C Olive oil
Juice from 1-2 lemons (throw chopped rinds in with marinade)
1 tsp kosher salt
1 tsp garlic powder or 2 cloves fresh garlic, chopped
1/4 C onion, coarsely chopped
2 sprigs fresh or 1.5 tsp dried rosemary

Instructions:

Defrost tenders. Carefully butterfly them by giving them a sideways cut 3/4 of the way through. Then open them up and flatten them out so the pieces are double-wide and half as thin. Place all ingredients in a gallon size ziplock bag. Push out excess air and seal. Massage ingredients in the bag until marinade is well mixed and all chicken pieces are coated. Place on a large plate or pan and refrigerate overnight, turning bag over once in a while.

Remove bag from fridge at least an hour before cooking. Remove tenders from bag and allow excess marinade to run off of the tenders before placing them on a broiling pan. Broil the tenders 3-4 minutes on each side, just until they start to brown and the juices run clear when you cut into them. Keep in a foil-covered pan until ready to serve.

Friday, June 8, 2012

Mentors: The Best Teacher I've Ever Had

Suggestions: Write about the teacher/mentor who stands above the rest as a positive influence in your life. Is he/she a person you actually know . . . a schoolteacher, a family member, or someone in your community? Is she someone you've never met . . . the author of a book you love, a public figure, or someone from history?

What is it about this person that has touched your life in a meaningful way . . . the wisdom of her words, or perhaps the example of how she has lived her life? Is it the personal connection you feel with this person, or the kind of energy she exudes?

If at all possible, give your best teacher the accolades he/she deserves for the influence she has had on your life. Send her a thank you note or a copy of the story you will write about this subject. Express your gratitude to this person now, while opportunity is alive for both of you. If that's not possible, think of your own unique way to pay tribute to this person. After all, he/she has helped make you the unique individual you are today.


You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

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Monday, June 4, 2012

From Mama Galuchi's Kitchen: Homemade Focaccia

Heaven's Wait will be sitting on the back burner for the next few weeks because I have some fun family and vacation events coming up. I'm gearing up for the engagement party we're throwing for my son, Shaun, and his fiancée Kimberly. Kimberly's college graduation is the day before the party, and our trip to the east coast begins a few days after the party.

So, in the meantime, I'll use my blog days to share some of the recipes I'm using for party food, tried and true choices from "Mama Galuchi's" kitchen. Mama Galuchi is how my family fondly refers to me when I'm in the kitchen whipping up yummy concoctions. Today's recipe seems to win the prize as everyone's favorite. It just kind of evolved from many trials and errors over the years, but always seems to win rave reviews. For the engagement party, it will serve as our sandwich bread for the sandwich bar I plan to assemble. Try it - you'll like it!!

Mama Galuchi's Focaccia
7/8 cup water
1 Tbs milk
1 tsp margarine
2.5 cups bread flour
1 tsp salt
2 Tbs sugar
2.5 tsp dry yeast
1 Tbs wheat germ
1 Tbs wheat bran

Olive oil
Kosher salt
Garlic powder
Thyme leaves, fresh or dried

Instructions:
Place ingredients from water to wheat bran into bread machine bowl in the order listed (wet ingredients first). Process in machine on dough setting (approx. 1.5 hrs). Remove dough and roll out onto well floured board into a 1/2" thick rectangle. An uneven shape works fine.Transfer dough to a parchment paper lined flat baking sheet. With a spiral motion starting at an outer corner, poke your finger into the dough about every inch until you reach the center. Slowly drizzle a small trail of olive oil over the dough and use a pastry brush to work the oil over the dough and into the indentations. Sprinkle with kosher salt, garlic powder and thyme to your taste. Slide dough on parchment paper off of the baking sheet and onto the center rack of a preheated 360 oven. Bake for about 20 minutes. Remove to baking sheet. Cool on a baking rack. Cut into 8-12 generous pieces.

Other Info, Hints:
Serve with various main dishes; slice with sideways cut for sandwiches; fill with your favorite panini ingredients and grill. Yummy!

Friday, June 1, 2012

Lasting Story: Favorite Time of Day

Have you been good about continuing your Lasting Story? Below, you will find suggestions for writing about the above subject.

Suggestions: If you haven't already done so, examine your routine day and select the time of day that stands out above the rest as your favorite. Is it early morning before the day's activities begin, when your mind is fresh? Is it late at night when the chores are done, everyone's tucked in, and you finally have a moment to yourself? Is it at the height of your busy schedule, when you feel you are most accomplished or productive? Is it during a meal when your family is actually gathered in the same place at the same time?

Write about it. Describe its importance to you. Make it an element of your Lasting Story, a small tidbit that adds to the total picture of who you are.

Share the information with your loved ones so they are aware of its importance to you. Remember to ask them about their favorite time of day as well. It will help you gain a greater understanding of who they are.


You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

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Monday, May 28, 2012

What? State of CA Finally Comes Through?

Surprise, surprise! After four months of waiting (7 months since the initial filing), the State finally approved the documents that will allow me to establish a Heaven's Wait business entity and open the little online store on HW's website. I hadn't asked for much . . . just to establish an LLC, so I could obtain a business license and open a bank account. I had done my part by filing in a timely manner and committing to the annual LLC tax. The State was the one that made the process drag on and on by failing to keep enough staff at the job of processing applications. I'll never understand the logic, considering the fact that business entity tax and sales tax income would be generated for the State if it simply processed applications in a timely manner.

Oh well, it's time to move on. Now I can take care of the other bureaucratic details and offer a few Heaven's Wait keepsake items to those who are interested. I've been away from the product development side of my project for so many months that I'll have to spend some time revisiting the items I've created, my marketing plan, and the operation of the website. Markets and technology have changed in those few months, and I need to reevaluate my position with them.

My characters are looking forward to their exposure to the real world. The Drippils, especially, are waiting in the wings to share their simple fun and silliness with the tiny earthly members of your family, while the Vowellans are eager to share their specialty goods with those of you who enjoy all things Heaven Wait.

Though I wasn't able to open the HW Store this past winter, as originally planned, I will get it up and running as soon as I possibly can. This turtle may plug along at a pace much slower than I'd like, but you must agree that my persistence prevails. Thanks for your continued interest.

Happy Holiday! And thanks to all who sacrificed for our country!


Friday, May 25, 2012

Favorites: Foods That Feed My Soul!

Have you been good about continuing your Lasting Story? Below, you will find suggestions for writing about the above subject.

Suggestions: Which foods are your very favorites at this moment in your life? Have any of them been favorites as long as you can remember? Are any of the foods new to your list? Did you find it necessary to acquire a taste for any of the foods that are now your favorites? Is there a food item that stands above the rest? Does it have special meaning attached to it? Is it your guilty pleasure? Tell the story of the foods that hold a special place in your life!

You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

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Monday, May 21, 2012

How Bad Should the Bad Guys Be?

As I plug along, writing tale after tale for Innocents, Book 2 of the Heaven's Wait! Tales from Vowella series, I realize that more than one type of bad guy is emerging from the stories and that each type has its unique value. Bad guys are good for stories because they promote tension and make story lines interesting. Before I started writing, I had never had reason to examine the many ways one can be bad. I now find I need to explore those options in order to make the stories work in an authentic way.

I clearly understand that a solid dose of fear stands at the core of most bad behavior. Except in rare cases, we all come into this world as innocent, trusting, authentic individuals. But our life experiences and choices chip away at that authenticity and give birth to fears. And we, in our bare humanness, must find ways to deal with our fears as best we can. For some individuals, being bad provides a solution to their dilemma.

As I write, I can make a story's characters show their bad sides by making them annoying, mean, or conniving. I can also step it up by making them evil, vicious, brutal, or without conscience. I can make a character's struggle with his fears an internal one, or I can make it external, which in turn affects the behaviors of others. If I choose to give a character a dark side, I need to identify the underlying fear that drives his behavior and work that fear into the overall story line.

I've realized that as long as the Vowellans live in their isolated valley of Vowella, the resident bad guys will know how to be bad only to a certain degree. But once they step beyond Vowella, and they will at some point, my options for introducing new characters with dark sides will increase dramatically. My job will be to figure out who they are as well as the depth to which they will carry out their badness. In the meantime, I must remember that Heaven's Wait lies between here and heaven, so there are barriers I will not cross when I determine how such characters should behave.

I must say I've been fortunate that my own personal experiences have not taught me a whole lot about being bad. But a wealth of examples abounds wherever I turn: in the news, books, movies, and TV. Those examples give birth to delicious ideas for characters' bad behaviors and ways to weave them into the Tales from Vowella. Who knew that this writer's unexpected journey would lead me to such exploration?

Friday, May 18, 2012

The First Thing I Remember in My Life

Let's continue writing your Lasting Story! Below, you will find suggestions for writing about the above subject.

Suggestions:
It's time to dig through all those cobwebs in your brain (even if you're a young person) to see if you can retrieve your very first memory. Chances are, that memory was a significant event in your life. For this writer, it was of standing in a hospital room next to the cribs of my newborn twin brother and sister when I was three years old. For my mom, it was of standing next to a young family friend for a picture taking session. She was dressed in an extra pair of his overalls because she had wet her pants just before the session. She was two at the time. She's 86 now.

Once you retrieve that memory, describe the feelings that arose from the incident and why you think it stayed with you all these years. Unless the story is traumatic in some way, share it with your loved ones. It adds one more fascinating fact that might otherwise have been overlooked to your overall legacy.


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Monday, May 14, 2012

A Time for Garden Renewal

I took the past week off from writing in order to oversee the renovation of our backyard garden. Fifteen years after its initial landscaping, the garden was feeling quite weary, with plants choking from excess moss above ground and gnarly oak tree roots beneath the surface. The irrigation system was riddled with gopher chew holes and blown-off sprayers, both of which distributed water in haphazard fashion to all the wrong places. Pesky regional weeds were outshining the original plantings, and the soil was desperate for nutrients. In the midst of all of my creative endeavors, I had disappointed my own backyard with my lack of attention. It was calling out to me, "Mama, please help!"

We live in a quiet, lovely spot, just far enough away from the rest of the neighborhood to allow us a little peaceful seclusion. But I wasn't feeling the peace when, every time I looked outdoors, endless work was staring me down, in the form of hose repair, root removal, and the constant pursuit of rampant weeds. Instead, I found myself retreating to the vegetable garden on the eastern side of our lot (which last year suffered a major gopher invasion of its own).

The time had come for some renovation. Sometimes you simply have to call in the experts. I reached out to the creative woman who was one of the original landscape architects for our property, and she came to my rescue. Her vast knowledge of plants and her talented eye for color and texture were a breath of fresh air. She offered immediate ideas for renewal, as well as help with irrigation and nutrient issues. She inspired me to start loving my back garden again, and what a good feeling that was.

So now, new soil, new plantings, and new water distribution are in place. I spent the weekend adding spots of annual color and ridding the remaining nooks and crannies of weeds and litter. I was sticky, sweaty, bug-bitten, and dirty by the time I was done, but it felt so good to once again dig in the earth, hang with the creatures, and listen to the silence, which is actually a very loud chorus of nature's best. I'm back home where I belong, in my own backyard.


Friday, May 11, 2012

The Most Meaningful Gift I Ever Received

Let's continue writing your Lasting Story! Below, you will find suggestions for writing about the above subject.

Suggestions:
At some point during your life to date, has someone given you a gift that meant a great deal to you, that added significance to your life? Was it a physical gift? Was it in the form of a gesture, spoken words, time shared, a message or quote? Was it something that made you feel joy or gratitude? Or did it initially cause you pain that eventually led you to a better place? Talk about the gift. Talk about the person who gave it to you. And, most importantly, describe how the gift was meaningful to you.


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Monday, May 7, 2012

Handling a Large Cast of Characters

As I weave the story for Book 2 of my Heaven's Wait! Tales from Vowella series, I am conscious of the fact that many new Vowellan characters will be introduced to the reading audience. On a few occasions, readers of R.J.'s Story have told me that they struggled to form relationships with the Vowellan characters because there were so many of them. Now that Book 2 has jumped thirty years in time, the population has grown significantly. The Vowellans are still comprised of five distinct clans, but within those clans, the characters from R.J.'s Story are now a generation older, and their offspring are also players in the evolving tales of Heaven's Wait.

I recently finished reading Clash of Kings, Book 2 in the Song of Ice and Fire series by George R. R. Martin. There are literally hundreds of characters woven into this series, and, in many cases, their names are their only reference. I'm sure the majority of the characters were strategically placed and that their significance will be revealed somewhere within the series. But when numerous lesser characters were listed, such as knights and commoners who were brought into a certain king's court and seemed to do no more than populate the stage, I found myself skimming over those lists and losing some context from those scenes as a result. Yet, Mr. Martin's stories work, so much so that they have been developed into a smash TV series. New characters walk on a scene with no introduction, and the story proceeds. My husband, who has yet to reads the books, constantly quizzes me about the characters and their relationships in Game of Thrones in order to keep up with the story. I am sometimes unable to answer his questions because the names were lost to me as I read. He says Game of Thrones is one of the most intriguing series he's seen where he often doesn't know what's going on because he doesn't know the identity of the characters.

Keeping all of this in mind, I want to make sure that as more and more characters are introduced into Vowella and the world of Heaven's Wait, I take the time to clarify their presence and give them enough personality so that readers are intrigued and curious enough to follow their journeys within the stories. Part of my fun in writing this series comes from being free to create as large a cast of characters as I please. But my challenge is to develop purposeful characters without making the scenes drag on too long and to weave them into the community, where they can impact the outcome of the stories. Wish me luck!

Note: I was glad to find that Clash of Kings included a lengthy appendix that listed all of the characters to date and their connection to the category/family/house under which they fell. I will most likely do the same at the end of Book 2.

Friday, May 4, 2012

Lasting Story: I'm Really Good At . . .

Let's continue writing your Lasting Story! Below, you will find suggestions for writing about the above subject.

Suggestions:
Go ahead! Admit it! No matter who you are, you have gifts (or flaws) you can't ignore. Maybe you have a good singing voice or an artistic hand; maybe you're good with words or making others smile; perhaps you have a natural sports agility or the consistent talent of running into doorknobs; perhaps you have an instinct for creating fabulous food or a knack for wearing mismatched socks. Record the admissions you are willing to share with others, those that show your strengths and those that show your human side. Have fun with your admissions, and allow yourself to take a lighthearted look at yourself. Paint a fun picture for others to enjoy, the picture as you see it!


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Monday, April 30, 2012

Leaving the Everyday World Behind

I feel so fortunate to know that no matter where I go or what I'm doing, I have the option to escape for a few moments into the world of Heaven's Wait. Since this magical world is of my own creation, I am free to travel to that corner of my mind whenever I please. What a luxury that is! While cooking dinner, pulling weeds, riding in a car, or taking a walk, I can pop into Heaven's Wait for a few minutes to concoct a new scene for a story, rethink the path of a character, create a new melody for a relevant moment, or invent a new oddball plant to throw into the animated landscape. Since I usually have my laptop attached to my hip, I can dive into my unearthly world during my lunch hour at work, when I'm on vacation, while my mom naps during the Thursdays I spend with her, or whenever I just need some time to myself.

Escaping into the world of creativity has proven to be so good for my soul. But it is because I approached my Heaven's Wait project with that intention in mind. The Tales from Vowella series was never about finding a new career for myself or landing a book contract. It was about finding a way to satisfy my creative urges while perhaps making some kind of difference in the universe during the process. So I make a point to keep my project at a stress-free level as much as possible, and I make sure that I am enjoying the process more than the end result.

A former elementary school classmate of mine recently told me that at this point in his life, he finds himself spending 85% of his time looking back and 15% of his time looking forward. My first inclination is to say that I do the opposite, by spending 85% of my time looking forward. But as I take a closer look at myself, I find that I spend most of my time in the present, taking care of tasks at hand, paying as much attention as I can to "life", which presents us with something new on a continuous basis, and then consciously stepping into the world of Heaven's Wait to see what new adventures await me.

I think all of us have a Heaven's Wait within us. You may go there with a camera, a golf club, a musical instrument or a paintbrush. You may go there when you spend time with a child, drive a racecar, dance to your favorites song, watch a movie, or perform a random act of kindness. I hope all of you have found ways to consciously leave the everyday world behind you for at least a few moments each day, and that you are living a more fulfilled life because you have chosen to travel such a path.

Friday, April 27, 2012

Lasting Story: Things That Allow Me to Get Lost in Time

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Suggestions:
What are some things or activities that feed your soul, that transport you to another place, where time doesn't matter and all is at peace? Does music transport you? Do you escape in the stories of books or movies? Does practicing a faith or being in nature take you there? Does a hobby or a creative activity feed that place in your soul? Perhaps sharing ideas about this subject with loved ones would give them further insight into who you are, and encourage them to give you space to fully experience all that gives you moments of peace. Add this entry to your Lasting Story!

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Monday, April 23, 2012

The Value of Writer-Reader Conversations

Good or bad, reader comments are gold. Not only do they push the writer to hone her skills and produce a better story; they tell her whether or not elements of her work have touched readers' lives in a noteworthy way.

I had an email conversation this week with a friend who just finished reading R.J.'s Story. Since he has known me personally for many years and knew that R.J.'s character was based on my own father, he asked several questions concerning the facts behind many of my references to R.J.'s history, beyond those detailed on the R.J.'s Real Story page of Heaven's Wait website. Did my dad really have his own plane? Did he really build tiny windmills in his backyard garden? I found it interesting that on similar occasions, other readers who had no connection to my family's history also asked those questions.

My friend took the time to write two pages of thoughts and questions. His first point told of the trouble he had connecting with the new otherworldly characters I introduced, a fact that hampered his progress through the first half of the book. He said it would have been helpful if I had included pictures of the individual Vowellans so he could see them as they appeared to me in my head. I must admit that I threw a whole community of alien characters at readers in a very short amount of time. But I also withheld such pictures from this initial eBook because I understood that many readers prefer to conjure up their own pictures of such characters. One of my other readers found an instant connection with not only one of the Vowellan children but also the wistas, the most mystical creatures of the land of Heaven's Wait. She did, however, jump at the chance to see my library of illustrations when I offered to show them to her.

My friend really seemed to relate to several of the subtle messages that were woven into the story—those pertaining to purpose, materialism and the passing of loved ones. Because they were significant to him, he was prompted to express his views on those concepts. In contrast, those messages slipped by other readers who picked up on details of characters, action and scenes and used them as the focus of their commentary.

All of my reader-writer conversations have told me that I raised my readers' curiosities beyond the written page, some in a good way and some in a not-so-good way. If I can at least get the readers thinking and talking about the subject matter, then I think I'm headed down the right path with my written expression.

P.S. So far, the people who have commented on R.J.'s Story are looking forward to reading the next book. You are welcome to weigh in with your thoughts. Write to me at barbara@heavenswait.com or comment at the bottom of this blog post. Thanks for your interest.

Friday, April 20, 2012

Lasting Story: Favorites…That Feed My Senses

Let's start writing your Lasting Story! Below, you will find suggestions for writing about the above subject. You may develop your own format for writing about this subject, or you may use the handy MS Word Lasting Story Template that lives within the Heaven's Wait website at http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html. It includes guidelines to help you write your stories in a consistent format and file them in an efficient manner.

Suggestions:
Give your loved ones an initial peek at who you are through the smells or aromas that are most meaningful to you. How do they make you feel? What memories do they bring to mind? What do they mean in the bigger picture of your life?

Sight, sound, taste, smell, touch! The five senses! Have you ever given thought to their relevance in your life? Have you ever shared those thoughts with the important people in your life? Think about the following questions and answer them in the same way you described smells. You just might discover something about yourself that you didn't know. Share your answers with your loved ones. They will likely discover something about you too. If you do not possess all five senses, imagine what your answers would be if you did possess them, or describe how you feel about not having them.

What do you most like to look at?
What are the sounds you most like to hear?
What are your favorite tastes or flavors?
What do you most like to touch?

Visit the Heaven's Wait website for the accumulated Lasting Story Write Guide at: http://www.heavenswait.com/WriteHW.html

To receive Lasting Story Writing Alerts, join the Heaven's Wait Email Alert List at: http://www.heavenswait.com/FormEmailList.aspx

Has this subject prompted a discussion between you and your family or friends? You are welcome to share your thoughts or conversations by commenting in one of two places:

1. Click on "comments" below this Lasting Story blog post. Note: As we move forward, if you would like to go back and comment on a previous post, click on Lasting Story under Subject Blogs in the upper right hand corner of this page. Then scroll down to the subject on which you wish to comment.

2. Facebook users, see Heaven's Wait's Page,
http://www.facebook.com/heavenswait. Comment under the Status entry for this Lasting Story subject in the timeline. Scroll down to comment on previous subjects.

I look forward to hearing about your conversations.

Barbara